The world is your family – ये दुनिया आपका परिवार है

Dunia me jitne bhi problems hai un sare problems ka hal ho sakta hai. Agar hum sirf apna soch ka dayra bada karle. Fir aur kuch karne ki aawashyakta hi nahi rahegi.

Dunia me har kisi me ek baat to common hai ki wo apne baare me sochta hi hai. Jaise ye chij meri hai, mai ye karna chahta hu, ye mai hone nahi dunga etc. Kehne ka matlab ki dunia me har insaan kum se kum apne liye to achha hi sochta hai.

Ab inme se jyadatar log aise hote hai jo ki apne alawa apne pariwar ke liye bhi sochta hai aur unke liye kuch bhi karne ko taiyar hota hai. Ki ye mera ghar hai mera pariwar hai aur mai apne ghar aur pariwar ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta hu. Mai apne ghar ko swachh rakhunga, apne pariwar par aanch bhi nahi aane dunga ya dungi etc. Aur aisa wo kisi ke dabaw me aakar nahi balki apne dil se sochte hai aur karte hai.

Aise me mera sawal ye hai ki kya hum apne soch ke dayre ke aur bada nahi kar sakte ? Kya jis tarah se hum apne aur apne pariwar ke bare me achha sochte hai to kya hum apne desh ko apna pariwar nahi maan sakte. Desh kya agar pure vishwa ko hi agar hum apna pariwar manne lage to sochiye humare andar kitna bada pariwartan aa jayega. Imagine kigiye ki ye puri dunia hi aapka apna hai, aapka apna pariwar hai. To kya kabhi bhi aap apne pariwar ke liye bura sochenge.

Aajkal hum itne swarthi ban gaye hai ki hume apne aur apne pariwar ke alwawa duniya me kuch bhi nahi dikhta humne kabhi bhi is dayre ke baahar sochne ka prayash hi nahi kiya. Humara soch yehi tak aake thahar jati hai ki ab bas yehi meri dunia hai. Bhaad me gayi dunia mere liye to mera pariwar hi sabkuch hai.

Haa ye sach hai ki humara pariwar hi humare liye sabkuch hota hai lekin mai bas itna kehna chahta hu ki hum sabko apne isi nazariye ko thoda aur bada karne ki jaroorat hai. Aur hume puri dunia ko hi apna pariwar ki tarah treat karna hai.

Aaj humara attitude aisa ho gaya hai ki hum apne ghar ko saaf to rakhte hai lekin jaise hi hum bahar jate hai humara attitude pal bhar me badal jata hai aur sadak pe kuda fenkne me jara bhi sankoch nahi karte kyu ? kyuki hum sadak ko apna nahi samajhte hai use saaf rakhna apni jimmedari nahi samajhte hai jis tarah ki hum apna ghar ko apna samajhte hai.

Hum jara jara si baaton par logo se lad padte hai. Kai log to aise hote hai ki chhoti chhoti baaton me logo ko jaan se maarne me bhi nahi hichkichate hai. Sochiye kya ho gaya hai aaj insaan ko.

Ye sab hum bas isliye karte hai kyuki hum apne aur apne pariwar ke siwa kisi aur ko apna mante hi nahi. Bas humare issi attitude ke chalte hum kisi dusre ke bare me achha nahi soch pate hai. dusre ko bas nicha dukhane ka prayash karte hai.

Hum ye nahi kehte ki aap khud bhukhe rehkar dusro ka madad karta fire. Ya fir jhadu nikal ke nikal jaye puri dunia ko saaf karne.

Mera prayash bas itna hai aap apne soch ke daayre ko bada kare. Jis tarah aap apne pariwar ko apna samajhte hai usi tarah dunia ko hi apna samjhe. Bhale hi log aapko apna na samjhe lekin aap unhe apne pariwar ka sadasya samjhe. Aapko kisi ko badalne ki jaroorat nahi hai bas apne nazariye ko thoda sa badalne ka prayash kare.

Kyuki jabtak aap apne man me ye feeling nahi layenge ki puri dunia hi aapki hai tabtak aap dusro ke liye achha soch hi nahi sakte. Jo puri dunia ko apna samajhkar unse prem kare wahi to bhagwan kehlata hai.

Jis din se aap puri dunia ko hi apna pariwar ki tarah dekhne lagenge us din se aapko puri dunia achhi dikhne lagegi. Aapke andar bahot bada pariwartan aa jayega. Aapke andar gussa nahi aayega aur aapka man itna udaar ho jayega ki aap har kisi se prem karne lagenge. Aur ye prakriti ka niyam hai ki aap jaisa karenge return me aapko waisa hi milega. To zahir si baat hai ki aap jab logo ko pyar baatenge to badle me log bhi aapse pyar karne lagenge.

Aapko jyada kuch karne ki jaroorat nahi hai bas jis tarah se aap apne pariwar ke saat vyavhaar karte hai bas usi tarah ka vyavhaar dusre logo ke saath bhi kare. Agar parivar ka koi sadasya galti karta hai to hum use daant lagate hai use sudharne ka prayash karte hai aur fir suthar jane par unhe maaf bhi kar dete hai. Isi tarah ka attitude hume sabke saath rakhna hai. Agar koi galat kare to usko rokne ka prayash bhi kare aur agar jyada hi bigda hua hai to use sabak bhi sikhaye lekin saath hi saath apna dil bhi itna bada rakhe ki unme maaf karne ka himmat bhi ho.

“Bhagwaan mera jivan sansaar ke liye ho.
Sundar swabhav mera dushman ka man palat de.
Wo dekhte hi kehde tum pyar ke liye ho.”

Hum dusro ko badal to nahi sakte lekin kum se kum apne star par badlaw ka prayash to kar hi sakte hai.